the grace to forgive

“Grace comes to forgive and then forgive again.”  Rumi

To reach the Gate of Forgiveness, built in the 6th century, are 3000 roughly hewn rock steps that are steep and uneven.  It requires great concentration of “where are my feet,” a practice we use throughout the journey.  To the summit is another 750 steps. 

We take the easier camel path up the mountain and for those with strong knees, take this route down the mountain.  Each person often pauses for a moment at this gate, remembering something or someone to be forgiven. 

The choice to let go of resentment or anger does not mitigate the hurt but is a key marker for internal peace. Forgiveness is best cultivated as a daily practice and is a measure of psychological flexibility and resilience. 

Jung believed we each need to apply the same forgiveness to ourselves, “that I myself stand in need of the alms of my own kindness.” 

The early desert mothers and fathers had it right, to forgive opens the space for grace.  The shift within is often as subtle as noticing the change in temperature from one side of this gate to the other. 

Wishing you the grace to forgive.